A Break, A Move and Clothing Advice Too

  Hello Ladies! I went on a much needed hiatus after so many disappointing wannabe sugar daddies messed with my self esteem.  Now, I'm back and better than ever!

  In the past several months I have relocated to beautiful Seattle, landed a new job, and just settled in up here.  On my hiatus I chose to STOP searching for a potential sugar daddy.

  To be honest, I got frustrated and let down way too many times; I felt like a piece of meat more than half the time, and almost smacked the snot out of more than one individual for trying to grab me.  Just because I'm looking for some sugar does not (let me repeat this) NOT  give you the right to reach up my skirt or grab my breasts whenever you like.  Especially in public places.  Get some manners men. Seriously.

  So, after the final let down of being told my standards would be met (and getting let down when it came time to receive my allowance) I decided to take a break and relocate.

 I now live near the lovely Emerald City; where great food, good drinks, and educated company can be found in a plethora of out of the way places; and the men are intelligent (but not all great looking).  I chose to stop searching in the sugar world and just date 'regular' guys for awhile.

  This made me realize how much I hate regular dating and I missed sugar dating so much more.  At least before the guy reaches up my skirt he'll buy me a drink first.  I shoved the guys who tried that with me in the regular world; I'm a lady, but no drink was at hand.

  So, here's something else I noticed: The better you dress, the better your odds. 

 I am lucky enough to live with in a reasonable driving distance of the outlet malls.  I shop at Anne Taylor Loft, Kenneth Cole, and Banana Republic.  This next bit is the most important: CLEARANCE SECTION for those of you that don't make a lot of money or have extra to spend.  The way the clothes lay on you and the cuts and fits are so much better, and whether you're self conscious about your 'pudge' or your small breasts or whatever, there is a store clerk who is all to happy to help.

  I am sure there is an argument to be made for Wal-Mart or Target brand clothes, but I can tell you my Emerald Silk shirt with a pair of Goodwill jeans has landed me more second dates than any pair of slacks or smiley face special ever did.

  The name brand clothes I go for are generally 'classy casual', which means I can wear the suit to work, take of the jacket and toss on some strappy heels for either dancing or a drinks with a potential sugar daddy.  Plus, they make me feel better about myself, and they're nice to touch if he wants to reach over and 'guide me' through the doors of the dinner restaurant.

You don't have to be a twig to turn heads girls, as a woman who was blessed with ample curve of hip and slope of breast, let me tell you I will never be a twig. Ever.  You just have to be classy sexy.  I don't show ANY cleavage but I do let my shape speak for itself, and I can tell you when I think I look good, I feel good, and that translates to confidence... which can translate to that trip you're considering, that class you want to take, or that rent money you need... Consider spending a few extra bucks on your clothes; it goes a lot father than that low cut shirt ever will.