I have re-signed myself to post-Christmas sugar. Potentially, BEFORE the new year.
I got rid of Indian daddy, I couldn't stand the waffeling, and in the end he turned out to be a time waster. He wanted, for our first meet, for me to stay in his house. I said no, said a nice hotel near his house, he said I made things too complicated and 86'd the idea of us as a sb/sd couple.
Thank God.
In any case, I responded to another man who lives in CA, we shall call him... Daddy Sport. He is experienced in these kinds of relationships, and knows exactly how to treat a lady. He is willing to pay for my schooling, take an STD test, and pay for incidentals TRUE gentleman and Sugar Daddy.
He can't meet until after Christmas either though... so lots of potential meetings the week after Christmas, none before.
Looks like I have to resign myself to working my hellish job for another week. -sigh-
Wish me luck. I'm going to pass out.
Adventures of a Sparkling New Sugar Baby
The adventures of a brand new Sugar Baby with helpful tips and hints for others new to the Sugar world.
Monday, December 19, 2011
Sunday, December 18, 2011
Pay Per Visit, not P4P
So, my Indian daddy is not comfortable with a monthly allowance and he suggested a per meeting type of allowance. I don't know if I am okay with this, but we will see.
Ah, not o mention, he wants to fly me Southwest... they don't even have a first class on their flights. Good grief!
I let him know that sex was off the table for the first few meetings (not certain if I will sleep with him), and he seemed ok with that. He seems kind of submissive, which I can deal with, but flying Southwest... ugh!
My Seattle pot SD is being kind of flaky, he was supposed to come down this weekend, but that hasn't happened, but he is still keeping in contact with me saying he is going to visit. I am wondering if he is becoming a time waster.
I have a couple on the 'possibly meeting them' list, both are local, and one already agreed to a 3200 a month allowance (paying for my schooling too), but not meeting until the 26th.
I would like a SD before the new year rings in, and if the local Portland pot SD works out, then I will be a very happy lady indeed.
If I can get two SD's for the month of December (either Indian daddy or Seattle daddy along with the Portland daddy), that would be much more fabulous!
Any thoughts on this pay per meeting crap?
Ah, not o mention, he wants to fly me Southwest... they don't even have a first class on their flights. Good grief!
I let him know that sex was off the table for the first few meetings (not certain if I will sleep with him), and he seemed ok with that. He seems kind of submissive, which I can deal with, but flying Southwest... ugh!
My Seattle pot SD is being kind of flaky, he was supposed to come down this weekend, but that hasn't happened, but he is still keeping in contact with me saying he is going to visit. I am wondering if he is becoming a time waster.
I have a couple on the 'possibly meeting them' list, both are local, and one already agreed to a 3200 a month allowance (paying for my schooling too), but not meeting until the 26th.
I would like a SD before the new year rings in, and if the local Portland pot SD works out, then I will be a very happy lady indeed.
If I can get two SD's for the month of December (either Indian daddy or Seattle daddy along with the Portland daddy), that would be much more fabulous!
Any thoughts on this pay per meeting crap?
It Twas A Week Before Christmas
Hello Ladies And Gents!
How are thou this fine early Sunday morning? If you're less than fabulous, slap a smile on that face and pretend until it gets better. ;-P
So. It's a week before Christmas (plus a day), and I am talking to a few pot SD's. Here's my rundown:
Two are from SDFM, ones that may be serious; We have, Indian Daddy who lives in California, we haven't talked financials yet, but my aim is for 4500 (with all my Daddies).
Now we have the Worship Daddy, he lives in Virginia, calls me a goddess, and we HAVE talked financials. We are aiming to meet sometime this next week, but it seems more likely that we will meet after the new year. I am going to take a friend with me on this meeting if I fly to him. ^.^
Last, but most definitely not least, is my Seattle Daddy. He and I have been talking for quite awhile, texting and such. and he was supposed to come down Saturday or Sunday, but with the holidays and the fact that he has been out of town awhile, it is looking more like Monday or so. He is the one I have enjoyed talking to the most, and the one I am seriously hoping to have as my Christmas present. ^.^
It has been five months since the beginning of my search, I've been on a few Sugar dates (more than a few) and I have had the gamut (as you all know about). I am ready for some steady Sugar. I would certainly love to quit my job and get back to into school.
Wish me luck Sugars. ;-P Love ya all!
How are thou this fine early Sunday morning? If you're less than fabulous, slap a smile on that face and pretend until it gets better. ;-P
So. It's a week before Christmas (plus a day), and I am talking to a few pot SD's. Here's my rundown:
Two are from SDFM, ones that may be serious; We have, Indian Daddy who lives in California, we haven't talked financials yet, but my aim is for 4500 (with all my Daddies).
Now we have the Worship Daddy, he lives in Virginia, calls me a goddess, and we HAVE talked financials. We are aiming to meet sometime this next week, but it seems more likely that we will meet after the new year. I am going to take a friend with me on this meeting if I fly to him. ^.^
Last, but most definitely not least, is my Seattle Daddy. He and I have been talking for quite awhile, texting and such. and he was supposed to come down Saturday or Sunday, but with the holidays and the fact that he has been out of town awhile, it is looking more like Monday or so. He is the one I have enjoyed talking to the most, and the one I am seriously hoping to have as my Christmas present. ^.^
It has been five months since the beginning of my search, I've been on a few Sugar dates (more than a few) and I have had the gamut (as you all know about). I am ready for some steady Sugar. I would certainly love to quit my job and get back to into school.
Wish me luck Sugars. ;-P Love ya all!
Friday, December 16, 2011
Trying a New Site
Hey Ladies (and gents)! Hope your holidays are going smoothly. Mine are just going. Had some hard hits this week, but I've also got enough pots on the stove in my life to help even things out possibly.
I have made a new long distance friend via this blog (I'm gonna call her Cinnamon Sugar, you know who you are gorgeous gal) and she opened up my eyes to a few different possibilities other than the SA website, and lets face it, some new realities.
I am still fairly new to this game, and she has a SD, not a pot Sd, but the real deal. She told me about another site I had forgotten about: Sugardaddyforme.com I've joined, and the blow offs, liars, and creeps are all there, but the possibility to find a sugar arrangement is a lot better there vs SA. I have been on SA for months, MONTHS. I know they say finding a sugar arrangement takes time, but I'm barely getting emails anymore.
Any way, I went back to SDFM and I have had some interesting conversations, a lot of guys on there want you to take off you clothes on the IM chat (it has access to your video camera and mic too), and I am not okay with that. It seems the quality of men looking for sugar is a bit lower there, but the potential is a lot higher.
Hell, I spoke with one pot SD this afternoon who's a lawyer in NY (biggest sugar pot in the US as far as I'm concerned), and we made tentative plans for him to come and visit me the day after Christmas.
I also spoke with a man on the phone who did nothing but talk about himself the ENTIRE time, and when push came to shove the screw ball wanted me to 'compete' with other gals he's already fucking and send a naughty photo. I told him I liked NOT having an STD.
I had yet another who wouldn't go get an STD test before we slept together, I told him no test, no sex.
Fact is ya all, a real sugar daddy will do what it takes to make you comfortable too. If thats getting an STD test, dating for a week or three, or just flying in a friend with you (if you fly to him) HE WILL DO IT.
My rule for kissing pot SD good bye: If my gut says uh oh, he's a no-no.
Remember this ladies and gents: Sugar goes both ways. You have a lot of wonderful things to offer these people, whether it is your looks, conversation, laughter, sex, etc. You get to call the shots too and don't take any bull shit or degrading comments from a guy (or gal) just because they're giving you cash. Being paid doesn't mean they own you.
;-P Keep your chins up and know you're beautiful regardless of what the males in the sugar world say.
I have made a new long distance friend via this blog (I'm gonna call her Cinnamon Sugar, you know who you are gorgeous gal) and she opened up my eyes to a few different possibilities other than the SA website, and lets face it, some new realities.
I am still fairly new to this game, and she has a SD, not a pot Sd, but the real deal. She told me about another site I had forgotten about: Sugardaddyforme.com I've joined, and the blow offs, liars, and creeps are all there, but the possibility to find a sugar arrangement is a lot better there vs SA. I have been on SA for months, MONTHS. I know they say finding a sugar arrangement takes time, but I'm barely getting emails anymore.
Any way, I went back to SDFM and I have had some interesting conversations, a lot of guys on there want you to take off you clothes on the IM chat (it has access to your video camera and mic too), and I am not okay with that. It seems the quality of men looking for sugar is a bit lower there, but the potential is a lot higher.
Hell, I spoke with one pot SD this afternoon who's a lawyer in NY (biggest sugar pot in the US as far as I'm concerned), and we made tentative plans for him to come and visit me the day after Christmas.
I also spoke with a man on the phone who did nothing but talk about himself the ENTIRE time, and when push came to shove the screw ball wanted me to 'compete' with other gals he's already fucking and send a naughty photo. I told him I liked NOT having an STD.
I had yet another who wouldn't go get an STD test before we slept together, I told him no test, no sex.
Fact is ya all, a real sugar daddy will do what it takes to make you comfortable too. If thats getting an STD test, dating for a week or three, or just flying in a friend with you (if you fly to him) HE WILL DO IT.
My rule for kissing pot SD good bye: If my gut says uh oh, he's a no-no.
Remember this ladies and gents: Sugar goes both ways. You have a lot of wonderful things to offer these people, whether it is your looks, conversation, laughter, sex, etc. You get to call the shots too and don't take any bull shit or degrading comments from a guy (or gal) just because they're giving you cash. Being paid doesn't mean they own you.
;-P Keep your chins up and know you're beautiful regardless of what the males in the sugar world say.
Friday, December 9, 2011
It's Been Awhile! Did out ya Miss Me!? ;-P
Hey Ya'll! So, it's been awhile. I've been busy with work, meeting pot SD's and well... my personal life. Due to some things happening in my personal life (no man troubles thank the lord), I had to take a break but, I AM BACK!
So, where did we leave off... Hmmmm. Red coach purse? Yes! Fabulous!
So, since Mr.Texas-Upnorth was kind enough to hand me $300 in cash on our first (and last) meeting, I have met with a few other potential SD's. And I even found a temp one in a very odd place: OKCupid. Yeah. Right!?
He owns a web design company and we dated for a bit, he paid for everything (except my bills) but I got a free laptop out of the deal. In the end, it just wasn't meant to be. Ah Cest La Vie!!
In any case, since him I have met with only one other pot SD, and we had a great time or so I thought, and now all he does is play WWF with me. We even made a silly bet, and I won, so he backed out on the deal. -sigh- I swear ya'll, these men are flakier than a box a of frosted flakes.
I have spoken to four more or so on the phone, via text, e-mail, etc. and meets never came of them. Silly, but true. I knew one was just stringing me along and had no intention of following through, but I figured why not put all my cards (wants) on the table and if he's the real deal, he will either put up or shut up. He shut up.
Next!
Basically I have been getting the run around from a lot of pot SD's and I think it *could* be me, but I think it also has a lot to do with the men on SA not knowing exactly what they want or how to go about it. strange, but true (or seemingly strange). As a new SB I bought the book that accompanies the site and did my homework. Why haven't they?
We are not hookers! I am tired of men thinking they get a 'test drive' before an arrangement has been made or I am comfortable, they are paying for the girlfriend experience with out the hassle, and just like any other relationship both people have to get comfortable before sex happens.
I had one pot SD straight up tell me he wanted me to slap on a strap on and 'do him with it'. I said good bye quite quickly. We hadn't even MET yet.
Here is my point ladies (and men): KNOW YOUR OWN SELF WORTH.
I work full time and have other things in life that take up my time and cost me money, but no matter how tight my bills get I am not going to 'put up' with some kinky douche who thinks that just because he slides a hundred across the table he gets to boss me around. He can lick my boots!
On second thought, maybe not... he might think it's foreplay. ;-P
Love ya sugars!
So, where did we leave off... Hmmmm. Red coach purse? Yes! Fabulous!
So, since Mr.Texas-Upnorth was kind enough to hand me $300 in cash on our first (and last) meeting, I have met with a few other potential SD's. And I even found a temp one in a very odd place: OKCupid. Yeah. Right!?
He owns a web design company and we dated for a bit, he paid for everything (except my bills) but I got a free laptop out of the deal. In the end, it just wasn't meant to be. Ah Cest La Vie!!
In any case, since him I have met with only one other pot SD, and we had a great time or so I thought, and now all he does is play WWF with me. We even made a silly bet, and I won, so he backed out on the deal. -sigh- I swear ya'll, these men are flakier than a box a of frosted flakes.
I have spoken to four more or so on the phone, via text, e-mail, etc. and meets never came of them. Silly, but true. I knew one was just stringing me along and had no intention of following through, but I figured why not put all my cards (wants) on the table and if he's the real deal, he will either put up or shut up. He shut up.
Next!
Basically I have been getting the run around from a lot of pot SD's and I think it *could* be me, but I think it also has a lot to do with the men on SA not knowing exactly what they want or how to go about it. strange, but true (or seemingly strange). As a new SB I bought the book that accompanies the site and did my homework. Why haven't they?
We are not hookers! I am tired of men thinking they get a 'test drive' before an arrangement has been made or I am comfortable, they are paying for the girlfriend experience with out the hassle, and just like any other relationship both people have to get comfortable before sex happens.
I had one pot SD straight up tell me he wanted me to slap on a strap on and 'do him with it'. I said good bye quite quickly. We hadn't even MET yet.
Here is my point ladies (and men): KNOW YOUR OWN SELF WORTH.
I work full time and have other things in life that take up my time and cost me money, but no matter how tight my bills get I am not going to 'put up' with some kinky douche who thinks that just because he slides a hundred across the table he gets to boss me around. He can lick my boots!
On second thought, maybe not... he might think it's foreplay. ;-P
Love ya sugars!
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