Flakes, Fakes, and Quick Escapes

So, I haven't had the pleasure of a fake yet, just the need for a quick escape.

In my previous posts I've stated that you should have lots of your friends call you on Sugar dates until you are comfortable with your new pot SD for them not to.  These calls serve a dual purpose.

If you meet a scary, creepy, fake, or sleazy pot SD, you can use your friends as a quick excuse to escape.

My biggest advice is this ladies: USE YOUR GUT.  If something doesn't feel right, cancel or excuse yourself and sneak out the back or just be very upfront about it.

Never EVER drink on a first meeting with a pot SD, if he can only meet in the evenings and drinks are involved choose something low alcohol or arrive early and ask the wait staff to always make yours a virgin.  This way you can keep up appearances and stick through the date (if you are indeed trying to make it to the end just to go home and never see him again), and your pot SD (or non pot SD) be any the wiser.

OR, you can simply order a soda or other flavored beverage.

If you MUST drink, order one and sip it slowly through the evening. I've done this.  By the time the date was over I still had nearly half a mojito left, much to the creepy pot SD's disappointment.

I always arrive early, scope out potential exits, have friends call me several times and have a back up plan.  I never let the pot SD pick me up, but always meet them at the location and have enough fare for a cab.  Never EVER go on a sugar date (first,second ,or third; unless by the third you really trust them) with out a fully charged cell phone and charger in your purse.

If your charger doesn't fit in your purse, there are little black boxes that are transportable chargers for many different models of cell phones.  Check your local carrier.

I don't want to sound like a downer, but I do think women take their safety lightly.  That being said, let's talk about sex...

I don't care how much you trust your new daddy, go get tested together for STD's.  A lot of powerful men think they're "bullet proof" or invincible simply because they have power and money.  I can NOT stress CURRENT STD tests enough.

Go together as a 'date' before you sleep together.  If your daddy is serious about you, he won't mind how careful you're being.  If he's a REAL SD, he won't want to take you for a 'test drive' (sleep with you before you know enough about one another to see if you are seeking the same things from an arrangement) before these tests are done or you're comfortable.

You don't want to end up with herpes or HIV just because some man offered to pay your bills for a year.  Sugar doesn't last forever, but STD's can last a lifetime.

Stay safe ladies.  Much love!

---> My new pot SD had to reschedule the meeting due to food poisoning. :-(  I'll keep ya all up to date. ^.^