Quick Update, More Ideas, and Being Up Front

Hey Sparklers and Veterans alike!!


SoooOOOoooo, last time I posted I had a meeting with a new pot SD.... it didn't go well. :-/  Let's start there.

I accidentally called this pot SD (we will call him Glasses from now on), I had been meaning to call a gal pal to see if she wanted to go out for a bite and a drink, but I mis-dialed.  I asked him out for the night instead, he seemed down to meet, and we agreed on two hours from that time (8:09 pm, yeah I'm weird like that).  

So, I rushed home to change and make myself as cute as I could possibly be in thirty-five minutes (w/ dinner tossed in).  I tried on ten different outfits, and finally settled on a large shirt with a cute little vest, black leggings and black boots with a neat design.  Super cute.

He said he would call me before he left, or text, I got neither.  I was thinking, "Hmmmm. What's going on here?", I gave him a call and left a couple messages on my way downtown.  I sent a couple texts too, to let him know I was nearly there or there.

The place we chose to meet is an upscale martini bar (I know, alcohol bad, tsk tsk) in the nicer part of downtown (this is important for later).

I didn't see him, so I ordered a drink (strawberry mojito = tall glass, easy to nurse) and sat at the main public table in the center of the bar.

I made small talk with a nice older couple, sipped, checked my phone... older couple left... and two tall and very attractive gentlemen take the seats across from me.

The gentlemen (I'll call them, "Cousin A and B") were very friendly, sweet, kind and funny.  Finally Cousin A decides to ask me if I was there with anybody, I mention I had a blind date, at this point (30 minutes after he should have been there) I send a text stating, "You stood me up, Nice. Have a good one."

I continue talking to the Cousins and they invite me to a different place for dinner, and I don't agree to nor decline the invitation.

Glasses finally shows up, an HOUR LATER!!!!  He walks in the door in dark jeans and dark shoes and a ratty gross t-shirt.  I duck behind the cousins, and they don't see him until after the third time of my pointing him out.

Cousin A tells me to just be honest with him and tell him I am not interested.  So, I figure that I have nothing to lose, the conversation goes as follows:

"Hi.  I'm  _____.  Really, is that what you're wearing?"

Glasses, "I just got off work."

"And? You work from home, right?"

"Yeah."

"Look. I just got off work too, and this took me thirty minutes tops to put together and I ate dinner in that time too, plus I had to drive home first.  And you couldn't be bothered to put on a clean shirt?  Really?!?  I have to be honest.  Based on what you're wearing, the fact that you were late, the fact that you didn't call, and some of the other previous comments you made; I am not interested.  So, thank you, but no thank you.  I am going to finish my drink and leave."

Glasses, "Can I come over and sit down and talk at least?"

"Look. I'm not interested.  Have a good night."

And we parted ways.  Needless to say he was a younger pot SD, but I felt that any man who can't be bothered to put on a nice shirt AND shave, is probably one that can't be bothered with me.  Show some class.


 As Brandon states in his book, Sugar Baby doesn't want a Sugar Daddy who doesn't take care of himself.  Bill Gates got a stylist, and YOU CAN TOO!!


Ok. That being said, I met with another pot SD in an area a bit father from me, I have a nice gift (which I will show you a photo of), and he has been a complete gentleman. He paid for travel (including hotel and taxi, etc), and meals as well.   He is very sweet, kind, a cordial.  And Funny!

I also have another meeting in San Francisco with another pot SD who I have only spoken to on the phone.... And also another meeting with a pot SD at the end of the month...  things are looking up after a few bad fits and starts, but I think we just have to hang in there ladies (and gents, for you males out there).







I can't post the picture, but cherry red coach purse, new fancy undies, and some sweet godiva chocolate.... Thank you daddy.  ;-P