Another tip for Sparklers (That's you New Sugar Babies)!

So, I have gotten 7 emails in the past seven days.  1 (one) email for every day I have been on SeekingArrangement.com  


That, ladies, is A LOT!


  Let me give you this massively helpful tip:  If you are serious, and I mean really serious about finding yourself that perfect SD, you need to spend at least one hour (yes, 60 full minutes) reading, writing, and reviewing (I'll go over this step by step).

 60 minutes EVERY DAY doing the following

Reading: You go through and read every SD's profile you can find that interests you (this doesn't take sixty minutes, most profiles can be read in 10 minutes, and this is reading them twice).

Writing: Once you find a pot SD you like, you DO NOT WINK at them, you click that big fat e-mail button and you come up with something witty as the subject, something that shows your personality, and you write them a 5-10 line email and end it in a positive note (this can take up to 10-15 minutes, it's harder than it sounds).  Something like, "I hope I made you smile." or "Have a sunshiney day!"  Honey, you wanna sound like you fart rainbows and cough butterflies.  These men's lives are stressful and they don't want that negativity in their lives, they get enough at work. DO NOT HIT SEND YET

Reviewing: After you write that sunshiney e-mail, you minimize your window and go back and read his profile, yes a third time.  You are a new SB (Sparkler), and once is NEVER enough.  Then, you review your e-mail and if it sounds good, and I mean you giggle if you wrote a joke or smile, then it's a gem. 

Then, AND ONLY THEN, hit send and watch it flutter off into cyberland.

Let me give you some odds here ladies: Seven days, seven e-mails. I have sent 39 messages, and recieved 7. 

  39-7, that means (for those, like me, that suck at math) a  17% response rate. 

  Yeah, 17 percent.  Not high, at least not really.  And I can tell you that two of those men really wanted an escort, so that lowers the odds to a 12% response rate.  And I met one, so far, and he was a creeper.

  Think about that next time you open your accounts up girls. 

Nothing happens by itself.  You gotta work your Sparkle ladies, cause the sugar doesn't just show up.

Oh... I'm not a blonde supermodel either. 

NO EXCUSES.